Thursday, October 31, 2013

Sarah Saves: Free Day at The Minnesota Landscape Arboretum

I sure do love the Arboretum out in Chaska.




It's such a treat to spend time there; either by myself on that lovely three mile drive/walk or with the kids at the nature center and playground.   Most years we get a membership but this year I didn't get my act together and felt we were too busy to do the membership justice.

Here's my save:  During the months of November-March the Arboretum has free admission on Thursdays! The winter months are a neat time to visit too.  The Christmas tree display in December is spectacular and there's nothing like a little stroll with snowflakes flying.  B-real tells me it's a tranquil place to get some work done.

During April-September the Arboretum is free, after 4:30, on the third Thursday of the month.   There are some great spots for picnics, photos, and learning about different trees, plants, and flowers.  Enjoy!



  

Wednesday, October 30, 2013

One of my biggest homeschool worries

This is an interesting article by a woman named Penelope Trunk.  I feel like you either love her or hate her because she is quite opinionated about schooling.

Worries

For me, the article she wrote about homeschooling parents' worries hit the jackpot with me.  I don't worry much about my kids but I do worry about me.  Choosing to homeschool children is a selfless decision.

I never dreamed about the days both my children would be in school.  I didn't plan to celebrate with champagne and brunch with friends. However, I did think about how I might spend the hours my girls were in school.  There were hobbies I thought of pursuing again, exercise classes I thought would be fun to try, friends with whom I wanted to reconnect.  I felt like I would have some time to really be 'me' after many years of being a full-time, dedicated mom with a traveling husband who at one point was working and getting his MBA at night and weekends.  It would be a lie to say I wasn't excited to have large quantities of time to do my thing or at least rediscover my things.




Our decision to homeschool wasn't made as a result of thinking schools are necessarily a bad place or that we wanted this lifestyle for our children all along.  Our hand was forced a bit when Big C's school told us there wasn't much they could do educationally to meet her needs.  We were encouraged to homeschool her, especially when they confidently speculated no school would be able to meet her unique requirements. Since we have made the jump I have realized there are many advantages to our family that have arisen out of this choice.  I am glad we homeschool.  

I feel like I put the needs of our children in front of my own desires to pursue hobbies and interests.  I am not angry that I don't have time for myself nor do I feel slighted.  I feel fortunate to be able to serve the girls in this way.  I recognize as they get older and are able to stay home alone that I can take more time for me.  I also am 'trying' really hard to use the time I do get to myself to do some of the things I listed above (yoga, coffee with a high school friend) rather than errands.  I have a supportive husband who wants these things for me too.

But I can see how a person could easily lose themselves...







Pre-Birthday Present Opening

I wasn't sure I could fit all of Big C's presents into my suitcase so we decided she could open a few the day before we left for our trip.






The creeper went with us to Hawaii!

Monday, October 28, 2013

Maybe Hawaii?

to celebrate Big C's 10th birthday!  It just so happened that B-real planned this trip to coincide with her birthday but wasn't exactly a birthday present.  When Little c got wind of the trip being over her sister's birthday she wondered where we would go for her birthday?  She thought New York would be a nice option! 

We just returned from 8 days on the Big Island staying at the most awesome of awesome resorts.  It is called the Hilton Wakioloa Village.  Check out some photos:

This is one of the five pools the Hilton has on their sixty some acres of property in Wakioloa Village.  We hung out daily under the rickety bridge because it was some of the only pool side shade.  


Since the resort is so large and spread out, the Hilton has a tram to take you around the property.  They also have these beautiful wood boats to get you around too.  The water below is fed from the Pacific Ocean so it's also fun to look down and see various fish.   We were able to catch the boat on the main floor of our hotel tower. 


Let me tell you about cool.  Below is the lagoon, which is fed from the Pacific ocean too.  It's completely protected from the large waves though so it makes for a perfect place to teach your kids to snorkel.  Big C and I had a blast and got to swim with a giant sea turtle.  We saw all kinds of pretty fish too.  Sadly, we learned Little c has some reaction to salt water and broke out into a horrible itch.  No snorkeling for her.  B-real took Claire another day and they witnessed sea turtles rolling around in the bubbles created by the waterfall.  Big C has no fear, she'll dive down into the lagoon to check stuff out and is not afraid to go face to face with a giant turtle.  Next up, she says, is learning to scuba dive.  I don't doubt she'd love it! 


Here are some of the waterfalls at the main hotel pool. They also had a pretty cool water slide!  All of us had fun going down it.  The hotel was so quiet that we could get off the slide, run up the stairs, and slide back down again.  The girls were at an ideal age for this type of vacation because they are both confident enough swimmers to be somewhat independent in the pool.  The other thing Hilton figured out was to make the pool no more than 3 1/2 feet deep anywhere. 


Our room looked out over the ocean as well as the dolphin pool.  It was really neat to be able to sit on our deck and watch the dolphins swim all day and sometimes in the middle of the night.  I had a hard time with the time difference for a few nights and found it quite peaceful to sit outside and watch the dolphins.  Since our airfare and hotel were free we decided to treat the girls to a swim with the dolphins experience.  I thought it was done really well and they were able to spend about 45 minutes interacting with them.  Big C said kissing a dolphin is just like kissing a hot dog.   Big C was torn between learning to surf or swimming with the dolphins on her birthday. 



October is most definitely the time to visit as we nearly had the place to ourselves.  B-real talked to some of the pool employees who said when it's busy at the hotel, it's busy.  The capacity of the pool we used is 2,200 people and there are 1000 pool chairs set up around the pool.  B-real's friend said in December and over spring break-y time every chair is full.  I don't think it would be as much fun then. 

We are home and I am tired.  We flew overnight from Kona to L.A. and then back home.  Neither B-real nor I sleep on planes so we are feeling the effects today.  We lucked out on the plane and each had a row to ourselves with one girl.  Fortunately the girls were able to lay down to sleep.

More soon, once I have a chance to download our photos!  


Saturday, October 19, 2013

Another Plus of Homeschooling

One of our favorite things about homeschooling is that we are not tied to a school schedule and we can travel with the girls.  We don't have to worry about them suffering as a result of missing time at school.  Traveling can be done at less expensive times of the year.  B-real's job allows for lots of opportunities to travel.  If it weren't for Little c's dedication and love of her team gymnastics we would travel even more than we do currently.  

At dinner last night B-real told the girls that his hope is they will graduate high school having been to every continent in the world.  He wants them to enter the adult world with more 'worldliness' than he or I had when we went to college.  I want that for the girls too. 

London: 



Paris: 




Where next?  

Friday, October 18, 2013

Coastal.com

I was out yesterday and saw a girl with super cute glasses.  I am on the hunt to replace my absolute favorite pair that one of the girls stepped on and broke.  B-real and I were sleeping on an air mattress on the floor at Lake Owen and I had set my glasses on the floor next to our 'bed'.  One of the girls, I can't recall which, must not have seen them and stepped on them.

I have bought two pairs over the years since my favorites were crushed but none have made me as happy as my old pair.  Also, I have ordered 10 pairs from Warby Parker to try on but haven't liked any of them as much as the crushed pair.

The hunt continues....

Until yesterday when the girls glasses reminded me so much of my old ones.   Just the right amount of amber in the tortoiseshell color.  I complimented her on the glasses and she asked if I had heard of Coastal.com.

Coastal.com

I said I had not and she told me your first pair of glasses ordered through their website are FREE. Minus shipping, she said hers was $17.

Holy what?  Free glasses!

I went home and checked out their website and they have thousands of glasses.  Not all of those thousands of glasses are eligible to be free but plenty of them are.



My personal favorites are the Derek Cardigan Item Number 7009 Brown Tortoiseshell frames!  I might be ordering them....for FREE!!!

Here's to the unforeseen benefits of a simple compliment!  

Nail Polish

I don't like to wear nail polish on my finger nails very much.  I like natural looking nails.  I finally found something, other than clear polish, that looks natural but is really pretty.  

My new favorite finger nail polish is Opi Bubble Bath.  I 'believe' it's their most popular nail polish and I can see why!  It can be hard to find in stores though.  




I go a little 'wilder' on my toe nails and almost always use a red polish!  Not very exciting but timeless and classic.  


Now if I could only find my nail polish remover and cotton balls.  A little person in my house changes her nails four times a week and steals my acetone and cotton balls!